By Support Staff on May 28, 2010
Wife Swapping and Swinging Rules, Guidelines and Etiquette
By: Irene Thebeauty
The lifestyle known as swinging or wife swap has a very strong etiquette that local swingers in the UK like to follow. Read on the find out about wife swapping etiquette.
Wife swapping was traditionally an adult activity that only couples took part in. As time went on single swingers also started to enjoy the wife swap lifestyle. While most couples respect the swinging rules that goes with this activity many singles, especially males, tend to bend the rules.
Swinging Etiquette
Following the wife swapping etiquette is just as important as finding the right person for swinging. Many single males are so desperate to get free sex or to get invited to wife swap parties that they often turn to inappropriate behavior. This is the main reason why most swinging couples prefer not to come to open single male nights at wife swapping clubs.
There is no reason why single men wanting to follow the lifestyle can’t follow swingers etiquette. The rules are simple and we are going to give you a breakdown of the basic behavior that is expected of everyone at a swingers party or wife swap club.
The first rule is simple choose the right partner to accompany you to a swingers party. If you take somebody with you that don’t know anything about the wife swapping community then things can get awkward for everyone. If you are single and need a partner to take along then rather use a swingers site to hook up with someone then to just take a ticket along. (A ticket is someone who just uses you to get into the swingers party and then drops you at the entrance). You and your partner are expected to be together at the swingers party and to also leave the party together.
The second rule – ‘Don’t be Rude’ is also common knowledge but most single males forget about it when their libido’s start taking over. Not everybody at a wife swap evening is going to have sex with you. Don’t take it personally when they say no, just move on and never ask them why they don’t want to swing with you as the answer might hurt you even more.
If somebody comes on to you and you are not interested a polite no thank you will do the job. If the person keeps bothering you then go straight to the hostess.The third rule involves personal hygiene and safe sex. If you take care of the way you look and smell then other adults will naturally ask you to swing with them. With swinging couples the women usually takes care of bringing essential things like deodorant, condoms and wet wipes to the wife swap evening. So it is single males responsibility to bring enough condoms and a clean set of clothes to a swingers party.
Are you interested in wife swapping and swinging fun?
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By Support Staff on May 25, 2010
Wife Swapping Or Swinging
By: Tigger Theswinger
Thinking about wife swapping? or for the more updated term these days Swinging, it used to be couples traditionally did Wife swapping adult contacts where couples would swap partners with others and it got its name down to this.
These seems to be many stories as to how wife swapping got started but it seems the bulk of people are under the impression its was called swapping because US couples during the war swapped their partners whilst the pilots where away, hence the term wife swapping.
For many years this stayed the case till the term Swingers evolved where married couples or indeed in some cases singles arrange to have sex with others and whilst at first it was down the personals adverts in newspapers once the Internet came along the introduction of swingers personals websites made finding swinging contacts much easier and the whole swinging lifestyle exploded with interest from couples that in the past would never consider it
Couples that do use swingers websites sometimes don’t even swing and they just use it as a way of socialising with other couples that have an active sex life so can swap photos, swingers videos, stories & fantasies so even if your just wanting to meet up with horny couples and not swing by using a swingers website is a great way to achieve this.
Even if you do meet up with other swingers you don\’t have to even swap if you want and just experience having sex in the same room, or maybe even soft swapping contacts that involve light activities like kissing, stroking, touching and oral sex and nothing else.
So by joining up to a swingers community you can be meeting with couples from all around the world and as most are pretty painless to join up you could be finding local swapping contacts and experience for yourself what swinging is all about
Their are many different types of swapping partners to consider from soft swapping, NSA sex, bareback contacts, bdsm contacts, or just good old fashioned sex contacts between single people and most of the contacts sites that I’ve viewed will offer some type of trail memberships with lots of free ad dons & features so you can best enjoy the site, like for example chat rooms, private forums, blogs and games after all a swingers website is only as strong as the members that use it so most will do their best to ensure you have a good experience as a member
So find your local swingers website and start meeting other wife swapping & swinging members.
Posted in BDSM Swingers, NSA SEX | Tagged BDSM. BareBack, NSA SEX, wife swapping
By Support Staff on May 23, 2010
Why Couples are Swapping Their Spouses with Swinging
By: Swingers Club
Couples from in and around India are on the lookout to find the best of ways in which they can start swinging and couple swapping. This concept of Couple Swapping and Swinging can be seen more predominantly in places such as Mumbai, Bangalore, Delhi and other metros. Couple Swapping in Mumbai is where it first originated where wife swapping was the ultimate kink for men to see their wives exchange sexual favors with strange men they met off the internet. Today, wife swapping has evolved into couple swapping where men and women both couples swap their partners to have sex with other males and females.
The concept of wife swapping has come at a time when couples seem to get bored of their sex lives and are on the rampage to add a certain spice and zing to their sex lives. This is why they opt for Couple Swinging and Swapping. In India alone, there are a number of swingers and swingers clubs that allow couples and single males and females to interact with each other. These can be seen online where couples post a short profile about themselves and hope to reach out to other men and women that would want to share their lust.
Today, the best swingers clubs and wife swapping clubs can be found online and provide couples with complete privacy. If you are one such couple that desires to wide swap or husband swap, then your best bet to find another likeminded couple or single male or single female would be to go to an online portal that is a swingers club.
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By Support Staff on May 21, 2010
Wife Swapping Basics
By: Alex Vitti
First of all, wife swapping is an older term for swinging, but it’s still found in articles and literature, so we’re going to use it here. Swinging is a new way to experience your current relationship in the presence of another couple or single. You can be heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual to enjoy this exciting lifestyle.
Who’s Swapping Men and women from all walks of life are finding that wife swapping is something that appeals to them. Perhaps they’re been in a relationship for a while and just want to try something new. Maybe there are sexual boundaries that they want to push through and you want to explore these with your partner.
Swingers are well-dressed, ‘normal’ folks that are looking for something more in their relationship, something that can bring them closer together in a fun and satisfying way. We’re not the ‘freaks’ that earlier stereotypes have made us to be. And maybe this has been a fantasy for a long time that only recently the couple has decided to pursue.
The ages range from late twenties to mid-fifties and the sizes and shapes are numerous. If you’re into certain preferences and fetishes, then you’re also in luck because swinging can support those as well. If you can think of it, swinging can do it for you.
Why We’re Swapping We’re swinging because we want to try something new, not because we want to have more sex or cheat on our partners. In fact, swinging isn’t cheating at all. Cheating implies secrecy and that there is something wrong with the act, but swinging is done with the full knowledge of the other partner. There are no secrets in swinging and everything is fully discussed before being done. If anything, swinging brings you closer together because you can feel safe to try new things and support your partner as he or she is pleasured by someone else.
Where We’re Swapping You can experience swinging just about anywhere these days. Most of the larger cities have their own swingers clubs or meeting places, while smaller towns have resources to find their own venues. Many of the adult stores will guide you to swinging resources, but if they can’t help, then go onto the Internet for directories. And if you’re a bit hesitant to go out and find other swinging couples, then you can always try the online swinging websites.
Like regular dating websites, you will be matched up with other couples that are similar to your tastes and location. Once you’ve found someone to swing with, then you can set up personal meetings at clubs or at your own residences. And once you’re swinging, you can get even more creative with the locale. You may want to try out going to an exotic (and erotic) destination and living out a dream vacation. Swinging is the way that some couples find more gratification in their sexual lives and more strength in their relationship.
If you’ve thought about giving swinging a try, then why not look into it?
Posted in SLS Articles, SLS Lifestyle, Swing Lifestyle, swinging experience, wife swap, wife swapping | Tagged wife, wife swapping
By Support Staff on May 21, 2010
Couple swapping activities at Swinger clubs
By: john lewis
Wife swapping or couple swapping has been in news since ages. Swinger couples are practicing the lifestyle since seventies. It is also denoted as swinging. This term includes all the activities irrespective of their heterosexual or homosexual origin. You can find several celebrities or sport men who are swingers. This lifestyle has become a rampant phenomenon in US, UK AND Canada.
These days married couples, singles and even she-males swing to fulfill their sexual desires. They socialize and share some personal moments to satisfy their sexual libido. It’s immense pleasure to experiment with different sexual activities that add an edge to the swinger experience. However, you should be pretty sure before asking an individual for the sexual encounter.
The swingers come in different packages. They can be skinny or overweight. The real catch is to welcome all shapes and sizes for the swinger activity. You can rarely found a swinging couple or single with a perfect body. Don’t be surprised if you find she-males and cross dressers at the swingers community or club. Hence, you can swap partner with anyone or everyone.
Nowadays, swinging isn’t a couple driven activity. You can always find single men and women who join the lifestyle for pleasure. They make their profile on online dating communities and interact with fellow members. They interact, chat, and share images and interests before planning an adult date. Some people take time to develop the comfort level, while sum start swinging during the first date.
Local swinger clubs are also popular for the swinging activities. These clubs have memberships for lifestyle couples. However, some clubs have restrictions for single swingers. It is believed that swapping activity with a single male/female increases the possibility of falling in love. It can ruin a marital life and lead to conflicts among the couples. Thus, clubs avoid such possibilities that can turn their reputation as a lifestyle club.
Hence, sexually liberal couples should join the swinging lifestyle for an overwhelming sexual experience.
Posted in swinging experience, Swinging Lifestyle, Swinging Lifestyle Articles, Swinging Stories | Tagged couple, couples swapping, SLS Couples, swapping activities
By Support Staff on May 21, 2010
Swinging Lifestyle Phenomena and History
By: Swinging
For centuries, many cultures have engaged in the art of sharing their partners with others, you only have to look to the days of Roman Orgies or the practices of the Alaskan Inuit tribe. The start of what is known as modern day swinging has however, only been around since the 1950’s. In the 1950’s swinging started to gain media attention through the wife-swapping parties held by members of the military, rather than swingers clubs, the initial modern day swingers held key parties, which involved husbands placing their keys into a pile and their wives randomly picking a key. Whoever the owner of the key was, ended up being the sexual partner of the wife for the evening.
Since the Key Club days, swinging has evolved from informal gatherings,, through to the establishment of dedicated swingers clubs in the 1960’s. The Sexual Freedom League of Berkeley, California, even started a lobby group to advance the acceptance of swinging within the community. During the 1970’s, California dominated the swinging scene with the establishment of on premise swinging clubs, where swinging activity freely took place behind open doors. With the advent of swinging magazines and newspapers, swinging was able to gain popularity with couples who wanted to retain discretion and not be seen at on premise swingers clubs.
Swinging advertising took the world of swinging to new levels allowing more and more couples to indulge in the hedonistic culture. Today, the swinging phenomena has extended all throughout the world thanks to the advent of the internet and initial introductions by US military personnel serving abroad. While the exact numbers of swingers world remains a mystery, it is believed that between 15% and 25% of all couples will engage in some sort of swinging activity. Since the 1950’s, swinging has developed beyond expectations with more and more couples entering the lifestyle each year.
Posted in SLS Lifestyle, Swingers Articles, Swingers Lifestyle, Swinging Lifestyle | Tagged history of swinging lifestyle, swinging history
By Support Staff on March 28, 2010
The History of the Swinging Lifestyle
Swinging refers to a recreational lifestyle in which couples engage in consensual sexual activities with other couples and singles. This is what sets the swinging lifestyle apart from other non-monogamous activities; the fact that it is done together as a swinging couple.
While sexual activities performed in a group atmosphere can be traced as far back to the Roman Empire, the modern version of the swing lifestyle has tentative roots in the 1950s during which time it is generally thought to have been practiced in some American military communities. This type of sexual recreation was first legitimized in the 1960s when the North American Swing Club Association began in Berkeley, California. Within a decade, the lifestyle was in full “swing” and was very much a part of the social thread of the 1970s.
Today, the swing lifestyle continues to be one that is chosen by couples for a variety of reasons – to explore sexual adventure within the security of their relationship, to defuse sexual stagnation, to express themselves freely, and even to improve their relationship!
The touchstone of the swinging lifestyle is that participants are always in control and can choose to engage in only those activities in which they feel comfortable – within the guidelines that they have set forth as a couple. There are many different ways to be a swinger; only you know what works best for you. Some of the more commonplace activities accepted in swinging include:
- Exhibitionism/Voyeurism – Either engaging in sexual activities with your partner while others watch or watching others engage in sexual activities.
- Soft Swapping – Engaging in sexual activity with another partner or other partners other than your own that can include kissing, touching, and even oral sex; anything other than sexual penetration.
- Full Swapping – Having intercourse with another partner or other partners other than your own.
- Group Sex – Sexual activities in which a multitude of partners engage simultaneously.
Posted in SLS Swing Lifestyle, Swing Lifestyle, Swingers Articles, Swingers Lifestyle | Tagged Swing Lifestyle, Swingers Lifestyle
By Support Staff on November 5, 2009
Online Dating Advice: Ask the Right Questions First
OK. So you’ve joined an online dating service and written an awesome profile. You’ve uploaded a great picture and now you’ve gotten a few emails, and you’re getting ready to respond. But what now? How do you start weeding through those responses who have real potential and those who would be a waste of time?
You need to find out about who this strange person really is and not what they want you to believe they are. It would be great if people wore labels like “Gold Digger”, “Daddy’s girl” or “Scam Artist” etc., but they don’t. So it’s up to you to find out these things and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this person if you decide you want to do that.
After you get past the initial small talk, ask them “What are the biggest mistakes guys/girls make when dating online?” Listen carefully to the answers. Their going to tell you a lot about themselves and their views in general, probably more than you asked for, but you will find out a lot.
Next you should ask them, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now they will usually tell you if they’ve had any bad experiences with dating online and help you to avoid making the same mistakes as previous dates.
Now for the all-important question, ”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If he/she puts all the blame on the other person, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If he/she takes all the blame him or herself, you should probably do the same. If he/she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.
People who Place All the Blame, may not be willing or capable of looking at themselves or their part in the situation. So you would be dating someone who “Has no faults” or is clueless about themselves or having an open and honest mind. People who Take All the Blame can have low self esteem issues and probably don’t see the situation for the way it really was, and probably have a distorted sense of self.
Asking the right questions will give you insight, possibly open your own eyes and make you more confident when you meet the person for the first time.
Posted in Online Dating Tips, Self Esteem | Tagged Asking the Right Questions, Dating Advice, Online Dating Tips, Self Esteem
By Support Staff on October 24, 2009
The Best Swinger Dating Sites – How do I find them?
With the explosion of online dating sites has come a virtual “all you can eat buffet” of choices. There are free dating sites, which I don’t recommend but if money is an issue, they are better than nothing. There are the large “Corporation” paid dating sites with many features such as chat, IM and even matchmaking services for profiles.
There are the “more affordable” paid sites with just a few features, and then there are the “special interest” sites. Sites for almost any kind of person you can think of: outdoor and athletic, couch potatoes, religious dating, non-religious dating, gays and lesbians dating. You name it, it’s probably out there. So what’s a person to do with all these choices?
How to choose the site or sites that best fits my needs?
Here are some things to consider when looking for the Best Swinger Dating Sites:
(1) Cost. How much do you want to spend? or how much can you spend each month for your membership or memberships?
(2) Features. What features are most important to you?
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Posted in The Best Swinger Dating Sites | Tagged Online Flirting, Online Flirting Tips, Swing life, Swinglife, The Best SLS Swinger Dating Sites
By Support Staff on October 14, 2009
How To Online Flirt – Online Flirting, a New Artform
Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “Offline” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT(Over The Top). If you go too far, they will label you as “slimy”. If you don’t go far enough, they will label you “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have is a computer, an internet connection and a membership in an online dating site, right? Listen up! Learning How To Online Flirt is Simple!
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make them eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. You have to Ooze with confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts partners like honey attracts Bees. Feeling good is addictive!
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